Bir an\u0131, di\u011ferini \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. Kendimize zaman tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ne \u00e7ok \u015feyi hat\u0131rlayabildi\u011fimize \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Genellikle zihnimiz bizi tan\u0131d\u0131k sokaklarda gezdirir; ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili an\u0131lara u\u011frar\u0131z. Bu al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yoldan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda beklenmedik hazineler buluruz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00fcrpriz an\u0131lar, ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizin zannetti\u011fimizden \u00e7ok daha zengin oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterir. Bize kim oldu\u011fumuzu f\u0131s\u0131ldar, ya\u015fam tecr\u00fcbemizin derinli\u011fini hissettirir, benli\u011fimizi geni\u015fletir. Hat\u0131rlad\u0131k\u00e7a k\u00f6klerimiz derinle\u015fir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fcnl\u00fck ko\u015fu\u015fturma bizi \u015fimdiki zamana hapseder. “Ge\u00e7mi\u015fe dalmaya zaman yok”<\/em> diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa an\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131karmak ruhumuzu besler, ama bu \u00e7aba zaman ister. O zaman\u0131 ay\u0131ramazsak, hat\u0131rlaman\u0131n zenginli\u011fini ya\u015fayamaz, ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi canland\u0131ramay\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7ok az insan an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 yazar. Bunun i\u00e7in kat\u0131 rutinlere gerek yok. An\u0131larla bulu\u015fmak keyifli, anl\u0131k geli\u015fen g\u00fczel bir mola olabilir. Tetikleyici ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 her yerdedir. Eski foto\u011fraf alb\u00fcmleri unutulmu\u015f y\u00fczleri canland\u0131rabilir. Eski adresinizi haritada arat\u0131p sokaklarda gezinebilirsiniz. Bu, hayal g\u00fcc\u00fc ve haf\u0131zan\u0131n i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7ti\u011fi tatl\u0131 bir ritimdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fczel an\u0131lar\u0131 saklar, ac\u0131 verenleri iteriz. Peki ger\u00e7ekten sadece istediklerimizi mi hat\u0131rlar\u0131z? Pek say\u0131lmaz. \u0130nsan zihni ac\u0131 deneyimleri hafifletmeye meyillidir. K\u00f6t\u00fc an\u0131lar\u0131 tamamen silmek istesek de onlar beklenmedik anlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hangisi daha kolayd\u0131r, hat\u0131rlamak m\u0131, unutmak m\u0131? Basit cevab\u0131 yok bu sorunun. Bazen bir \u015fark\u0131 bizi ge\u00e7mi\u015fe g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr; hat\u0131rlama kendili\u011finden ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir. Basit bir isim i\u00e7in dakikalarca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Unutmaya gelince\u2026 G\u00fcnl\u00fck detaylar fark\u0131nda olmadan silinirken, travmatik an\u0131lar\u0131 unutmak neredeyse imkans\u0131zd\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131 istemek ile ba\u015farmak aras\u0131nda u\u00e7urum vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Bilin\u00e7li unutma”<\/em> \u00e7abas\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi yeniden yazmak m\u0131d\u0131r? Bu belki ge\u00e7mi\u015fi silmekten \u00e7ok, kendimize daha katlan\u0131labilir bir hikaye anlatma \u00e7abas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir an\u0131y\u0131 tamamen yok edemesek de, \u00fczerini \u00f6rterek bug\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fczerindeki g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc k\u0131rabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hat\u0131rlama arzusuyla unutma ihtiyac\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki ince \u00e7izgide y\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fcz hepimiz. Haf\u0131zam\u0131z, kim oldu\u011fumuzu f\u0131s\u0131ldayan bir s\u0131\u011f\u0131nak oldu\u011fu kadar, bazen kaybolmaktan korktu\u011fumuz g\u00f6lgeli bir labirenttir. Zaman ak\u0131p giderken, bu i\u00e7sel gelgitle ya\u015far\u0131z. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fin zenginli\u011fine sar\u0131lmak isterken, baz\u0131 y\u00fcklerden kurtulmay\u0131 arzular\u0131z. Ve sonunda, belki de en \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan \u015fey, t\u00fcm bu karma\u015fay\u0131 kabullenmektir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hat\u0131rlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla, unutmay\u0131 umduklar\u0131m\u0131z… Hangilerini saklayaca\u011f\u0131z, hangilerini \u015fefkatle u\u011furlayaca\u011f\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte as\u0131l mesele bu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":103561,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[1749,1748,1750],"class_list":["post-100636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-notlar","tag-hatiralar","tag-neleri-hatirlariz","tag-unutulanlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=100636"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100636\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=100636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=100636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.remgo.com\/11\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=100636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Hat\u0131rlamak \u0130stemedi\u011fimiz An\u0131lar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n